A Moment in Proverbs 7/30/09

Proverbs 30:32

If thou hast done foolishly in lifting up thyself, or if thou hast thought evil, lay thine hand upon thy mouth.

We have used this proverbs as a refrence in our child training. Typically, it has been used when a child is speaking foolishly. I will review this verse with them as well as many others. We will talk about bridling our tongue and the dangers of not doing so. If they continue to refuse wisdom, I will ask them to sit on the couch with their hand over their mouth. I don't think I have had to do this but maybe three times in the last 21 years of parenting. It is a good visual for the entire family and a very hands on way to remember the Truth written in this proverb.

With much love,

Mrs. Joseph Wood

A Moment in Proverbs

Proverbs 3: 3

Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart.

If we keep reading the passage we can understand the real importance of mercy and truth- they both are needed to find favour and good understanding in the sight of God. It is important for children to see Mercy displayed and Truth as the foundation of their home. Take some time to talk about mercy and truth. Look them up in your dictionary, look up verses that discuss mercy and truth. Give real life examples from your home of what mercy looks like and how truth is fundamental.

Here's an idea you might want to try. Remember to pray and ask the Lord for wisdom as you train your children. He gives His people creativity and guides us perfectly- I know He has done it for me over and over again!

Activity:
Write Mercy and Truth on one card.
Take a hole puncher and make a hole at the top of each card to string ribbon through
Cut a piece of ribbon long enough to make a necklace
Slip the card onto the ribbon
Wear as a necklace

Make one for YOU too! :-)

As your child goes throughout the day talk the opportunities that arise that need us to show mercy and/or truth. If you're like me you'll find the Lord showing you many areas for yourself. Make sure you share these as the Lord allows... talk about how you chose to surrender to His will. Let your child see you- a sinner saved by God's amazing Grace and tender MERCY!

May our homes reflect His goodness!
Mrs. Joseph Wood